I love having Jennifer Wilck here today, and I love what she's written her post about, too. See if you recognize anyone you know in what she says. - Liz
As writers, one of the first things we’re taught is to write what you know. That’s all well and good, but sometimes what I know means having to give up my privacy. While I don’t mind providing authenticity to my characters, and I believe it makes the reader relate to them more, I don’t necessarily want my life on the page. Just like I don’t write sex scenes that imitate real life—one of the first questions I get asked when people find out I’m a romance author—I don’t readers who know me to think that what my characters think and feel are what I think and feel.
In this case, my hero’s biggest concern is that his clients and other people will think he’s stupid if he doesn’t hear them correctly. I can say quite honestly that I’ve never been concerned about people thinking I’m stupid. Number one, I’m aware of my own intelligence. Number two, I make fun of myself all the time for mistakes I make, few of which have to do with mishearing someone.
No, my biggest concern when I received my hearing aids was loneliness. We all want to fit in and have things in common with those around us. At forty years old, when I looked around, the only people I saw wearing hearing aids other than me were those who had significant hearing loss—and by significant, I mean much worse than mine—or those who were twenty to thirty years older than I was. Knowing there were few, if any, people my age with my circumstances was lonely. It didn’t prevent me from being friends with anyone, it didn’t stop my family (at least, those who knew) from loving me, but it provided another “difference” that I had to consider.
Eventually, I got past it. I adjusted to both the psychological aspects, and the physical aspects of being able to hear things I never knew existed—like background buzzing from lights or appliances. I paid more attention to people’s eyes, instead of focusing solely on their mouths. I still say, “What?” a lot, but I think that’s just me. And now, twelve years later, I’m less lonely, in part because I pushed past it and in part because people my age are starting to, well, age.
So, would I recommend writing what you know? Yes. Just be careful how far you go.
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Abby Marlow, computer security expert, lands a job at the best IT security firm in the country. Her sole focus is financial independence so she never has to rely on others again, especially a man. But why does her boss make her wires short circuit?
Ted Endicott, CEO and founder of the IT security firm, is hard of hearing. Although an expert in his field, he’s still uncomfortable admitting his difficulty hearing to his clients or employees. So why is he willing to accept Abby’s help?
As Ted and Abby work together, barriers fall away, and soon the lines blur between colleagues and lovers. But a security glitch in a client's system indicates one of his employees is the hacker, and all signs point to Abby. Can they get past the suspicion and find a future together?
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Jennifer started telling herself stories as a little girl when she couldn’t fall asleep at night. Pretty soon, her head was filled with these stories and the characters that populated them. Even as an adult, she thinks about the characters and stories at night before she falls asleep or walking the dog. Eventually, she started writing them down. Her favorite stories to write are those with smart, sassy, independent heroines; handsome, strong and slightly vulnerable heroes; and her stories always end with happily ever after.
In the real world, she’s the mother of two amazing daughters and wife of one of the smartest men she knows. She believes humor is the only way to get through the day and does not believe in sharing her chocolate.
Jennifer Wilck is an award-winning contemporary romance author for readers who are passionate about love, laughter, and happily ever after. Known for writing both Jewish and non-Jewish romances, her books feature damaged heroes, sassy and independent heroines, witty banter and hot chemistry. Jennifer’s ability to transport the reader into the scene, create characters the reader will fall in love with, and evoke a roller coaster of emotions, will hook you from the first page. You can find her books at all major online retailers in a variety of formats.
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Anxious to read this one! My husband is hard of hearing, yet hasn't gone to aids yet... I wish he would. Oh, and San Francisco! I'm all in, Jennifer!
ReplyDeleteThank you so much, Nan. Good luck to your husband--takes some time to get used to them, but it's really helpful. :)
DeleteThanks for coming, Jennifer. I love this post! My husband has a hearing aid and it helps immeasurably, particularly with his music; however, the audiologist did warn me that while she could help him hear, she couldn't make him listen. :-)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much for having me! And I love your audiologist. :)
DeleteI too am hearing impaired. Hearing aids won't help because of nerve damage. On the lighter side when I read a romance when he notices her staring at his lips and thinks she's hot for him, my first thought is lip reading. Lol. Great post and thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteGlad you liked the post, Donna. And that's really funny!
DeleteYour book sounds amazing, Jennifer!
ReplyDeleteGood luck and God's blessings with it.
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Thank you so much, Pamela.
DeleteI do know about writing about what you know. I don't know if you read my book A Balancing Act, but it's about a girl who loses her leg, and her struggles. I have been housebound in a wheelchair for ten years, and I know the frustrations. Best on your book!
ReplyDeleteI know you do, Ilona. Thank you so much for your understanding and best wishes to you as well.
DeleteWriting what you know does often give you more insight and empathy. This sounds like a great overcoming adversity story! Congrats and best wishes on the release!
ReplyDeleteThanks so much, Darlene!
DeleteEnjoyed your blog, brave of you to write what you know and tell about it. Sounds like a story I would enjoy. Adding it to my summer reading list. Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteOh I'm so glad, Tena. Thank you!
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